The One Way Street of The Narcissist

They are all around us.  They pursue their base instincts without regard for whom they harm. Contempt, and indifference, are their trademark.  They judge harshly, the actions of others, while they steal others work to claim as their own.  They expect the world, but resent any requests made upon their own time.  They give very little, and take far too much.  They demand.  They deflect. They deny.  Narcissist lie gratuitously, about matters great and small.


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Roll With It!


Who cares what ‘they’ think.  Follow your own inner guidance with courage and conviction.  If we focus on things outside our control then we will be living in the ‘problem’.  If instead, we divert our energy to those things we can impact in a positive way, we will have more energy, get more done, be more focused and have solid mental health.


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Passion & Vision


Passion creates energy and attraction.  It builds and unites teams.  Passion with a vision can overcome great challenges.  Passion drills down on what matters and burns through obstacles.  Often people are attracted to energy and buy into visions.  Enough excitement can make the ordinary seem extraordinary.


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Just Because!


When we focus our thoughts, and channel our energy, great things are possible. If we move forward with purpose, because that is how we’ve chosen to live our lives, then regardless of outcomes, we are living with purpose.

“There’s something wrong with your character if “opportunity” controls your loyalty…” Sean Simmons


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Does Joyful Thinking Lead to Orgasms?


Some believe we are a disconnected society.  We make decisions without thought or concern for the impact of our decisions.  We hide behind excuses to justify our actions. We fail to consider the impact our actions have on others.  What if people stopped focusing on ‘self’ and instead stopped to consider the other’s point of view?  What if we attempted to see things through a different lens?


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Energy and Vibrations ~


What if, all of life, is about the exchange of energy.  Food requires energy to grow.  We consume food essential to our growth.  We expend energy.  We attract energy.  Money represents the exchange of energy. Relationships with others transfer energy. All of these transactions happen on a vibrational frequency.  We get “good vibes” from some exchanges.  We get a “bad vibes” from others.  Is it possible this is more than just a saying?


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Any Lengths

Who among us cares to go to ‘any lengths’ to change?  We sit.  We think.  We wish.  We talk.  We fantasize about.  We do the same thing.  We fail.  We do it again.  We think.  We wish.  We ‘try’.  We fantasize.  We fail.


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Understanding; Maturity and Wisdom


When we are stuck in how right we are, we lose the ability to mature.  We fail to see the other’s point of view.  Think of it this way; the more we can understand anyone’s point of view the better understanding we gain of the world around us, which is fueled by different people.  The more we understand different people, the more effective we can be in bridging the gap between differences.  In business this can build bridges between departments.  This can win over difficult clients, close difficult customers, and accomplish difficult missions with difficult people.  People stop being “difficult” when we ‘get them’.


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False Stories and Perceptions of the Mind

There is a great series on Netflix called Brain Games.  The series exploits optical illusions and memory challenges that disprove the innate assumptions you thought you knew about the physical world around you.


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Because We Can


The Road Less travelled by Scott Peck is a book I have not read in a long time.  One of the chapters covers delaying gratification; specifically many people’s inability to do so!


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