Recalibration; Expectations and Acceptance


If a movie review is terrible, our expectations are low, and it’s doubtful, when our expectations are met, we will be disappointed.  What if a movie with our favorite stars is heralded as the movie of the year?  Will our expectations become unrealistically high? Are we more likely to be disappointed when we discover the only talent existed with the marketing agent!   Expectations often lead to disappointment. So how can we recalibrate our expectations to be joyful and still work toward our goals?  Is it possible to be ambitious and have realistic expectations?   (more…)

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Go All The Way

If we hold back for fear of getting hurt, do we hurt any less when the relationship does not work out?  If we hold back from giving our all to hit a goal, do we feel any less disappointed if we miss the mark?  If…

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Consistency. Resist it and Victim to it.


Why does the word “consistent” seem synonymous with dull, boring, monotonous, mind numbing and uncreative?  My EGO hears that word and it feels trapped in a tiny cell with no light.  It pops up at every turn and my ego runs in the other direction indignant at the mere suggestion the solution to all my problems is consistency.   (more…)

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